<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Grammar on blot.blog</title><link>https://blot.blog/tags/grammar/</link><description>Recent content in Grammar on blot.blog</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en</language><managingEditor>elliot@clowes.me (Elliot Clowes)</managingEditor><webMaster>elliot@clowes.me (Elliot Clowes)</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://blot.blog/tags/grammar/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Feminine exclamation</title><link>https://blot.blog/2022/02/08/feminine-exclamation/</link><pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><author>elliot@clowes.me (Elliot Clowes)</author><guid>https://blot.blog/2022/02/08/feminine-exclamation/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Maybe it’s just me, but when I read say a reddit comment or an email the more exclamation points the person has used the more likely I am to think it’s a woman who has written it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don’t know why! Maybe it’s just that the women of my life happen to use them a lot and now I associate exclamation points with ladies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But it wouldn’t surprise me if women do actually use them more than men.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>People keep on using 'gaslighting' incorrectly</title><link>https://blot.blog/2021/09/03/people-keep-on-using-gaslighting-incorrectly/</link><pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><author>elliot@clowes.me (Elliot Clowes)</author><guid>https://blot.blog/2021/09/03/people-keep-on-using-gaslighting-incorrectly/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I feel like the term &amp;lsquo;&lt;a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting"&gt;gaslighting&lt;/a&gt;&amp;rsquo; has gone from obscurity to mainstream in only a few years.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you didn&amp;rsquo;t know, &amp;lsquo;gaslighting&amp;rsquo; comes from the 1944 film &amp;ldquo;&lt;a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-d&amp;amp;q=Gaslight+1994+film"&gt;Gaslight&lt;/a&gt;&amp;rdquo; where &amp;ldquo;a husband who uses trickery to convince his wife that she is insane in order to steal from her.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Essentially, if you gaslight someone you are trying to make them doubt their own version of events. And also at the same time make them doubt their own sanity.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>